{"id":4349,"date":"2025-12-10T05:37:28","date_gmt":"2025-12-10T13:37:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/treehousewriters.com\/wp53\/?p=4349"},"modified":"2025-12-08T16:38:01","modified_gmt":"2025-12-09T00:38:01","slug":"sleep-grade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/treehousewriters.com\/wp53\/2025\/12\/10\/sleep-grade\/","title":{"rendered":"Sleep Grade"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I hit 90 last night! But I don&#8217;t know why.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, lemme explain.<\/p>\n<p>Six or seven years ago I got a Fitbit for Christmas. Not one of the fancy ones&#8211;mostly what I wanted was a wearable pedometer. But by the time I adopted the technology, my Fitbit would tell me all sorts of things about my heart rate, my exercise level, my oxygenation, and yes, my sleep. And I got the Fitbit at about the same time that I began to look at the correlation between sleep and brain health, especially in later life. And six years ago, my sleep scores were&#8230; not stellar. Fitbit grades on a 1-100 scale, based on time spent awake and asleep, time spent in each sleep stage (light, deep, REM and awake&#8230; which I would not have thought was a sleep stage, but there you go), movement during sleep, and sleeping heart rate. I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve ever gone below 60; the 70s are &#8220;fair,&#8221; and the 80s are &#8220;good.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If families have mythologies of their own (they do) one of the roles I played, and was weirdly proud of, was &#8220;the last person to turn out her light.&#8221; This probably grew out of my childhood difficulty in going to sleep&#8211;once I was broken of thumb-sucking, anyway. Most nights I would crawl out of bed and sit in the window of my bedroom to read by the streetlight&#8211;until my mother discovered that I was ruining my eyes this way. At that point she said &#8220;Okay, read until you&#8217;re tired, then turn out your own (subvocalized) **damn** light.&#8221; From that point on, I usually read until midnight, even as late as 2am. Given that I had to be up at 7 or for to school, I don&#8217;t know how I survived. But I did. In fact, throughout most of my adult life I got by on 5-6 hours of sleep a night (with occasional weekend sleep orgies of 10 hours&#8230; and <em>that<\/em> ended when I had kids who wanted my attention regardless of what <em>I<\/em> wanted).<\/p>\n<p>This, I now know, is not healthy. So for the last six years I have been working on a conversion of manners: I now go to bed around 10pm most nights, read for a while, and (if all goes well) am asleep by 11. \u00a0Over those last six years I have trained myself to fall asleep faster&#8211;breathing techniques, lavender pillows, temperature checks, light-blocking curtains, no screens before bed, reading soporific material&#8211;you name it, I&#8217;ve tried it. I have worked out a system of sorts, and I am pleased to say that my sleep scores are now almost always in the 80s. Sometimes even in the upper 80s.<\/p>\n<p>But last night I hit 90. <em>Excellent<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>I feel like I should get an award. If I could figure out what I did last night to attain excellence I would do it every night. So I checked the statistics.<\/p>\n<p>Last night slept for 7 hours and 13 minutes. I was awake for a total of 31 minutes in tiny increments. I had an hour and 51 minutes of REM sleep. I totaled 4 hours and 22 minutes of light sleep, and 59 minutes of deep sleep. My oxygen variation was low, and my sleeping heart rate was 59. Fitbit only detected movement during 2% of my sleep. That accounts for a <strong>90<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>A week or so ago, I slept for 7 hours and 14 minutes. \u00a0I was awake for 17 minutes, clocked an hour and 27 minutes of REM sleep, 5 hours and 3 minutes of light sleep, and 44 minutes of deep sleep. My oxygen variation was low, but my sleeping heart rate was 69! And I was restless about 5% of the night. My score for that not-terribly-different night? <strong>83<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>So what do I learn from all this? A lot of the things that affect my sleep I cannot directly influence. How often I&#8217;m awake seems to be a function of whether I&#8217;m comfortable, and while I strive to be, obviously in the middle of the night sometimes I&#8217;m not. Maybe I&#8217;m thinking too much. I cannot, as far as I know, control the quantity of REM sleep I get. Or my sleeping heart rate. Dammit, there are too many variables.<\/p>\n<p>I will note that yesterday we went to see a screening of the Stephen Sondheim musical Merrily We Roll Along (it&#8217;s terrific) and I know that the music inserted itself into my dreams. Maybe the secret to upping my sleep score is musical theatre?<\/p>\n<p>Stranger things have happened.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I hit 90 last night! But I don&#8217;t know why. Okay, lemme explain. Six or seven years ago I got a Fitbit for Christmas. Not one of the fancy ones&#8211;mostly what I wanted was a wearable pedometer. 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